Benny Blanco Says He Can’t Discuss Selena Gomez Sex Life

Whether or not Selena Gomez can keep her hands to herself is not up for discussion.  

Indeed, her husband Benny Blanco revealed he’s prohibited from speaking publicly about him and the “Hands to Myself” singer’s sex life. 

As Benny said on the May 12 episode of his Friends Keep Secrets podcast after cohost Lil Dicky inquired about his and Selena’s alone time, “I’m not allowed to talk about that publicly.” 

And to be clear, the music producer could, but why would he want to? 

After all, Benny, 38, shut down any speculation that Selena “made” him sign a non-disclosure agreement, which would legally prevent him from divulging the intimate details of their relationship. 

“No, I’m just, like, a gentleman,” Benny explained. “Kind of just, like, a thing I do. I’m a gentleman or something. I don’t know.”

But Benny—who married the Disney Channel alum during an intimate ceremony in September 2025—isn’t always tight-lipped when it comes to talking about Selena. In fact, he recently spilled the beans about the Rare Beauty founder’s unexpected eating habits.